Imagine going on a date with a woman who knows she will feel comfortable around you, before she even meets you…
Eric Lercara has a background in psychology and philosophy, and has read hundreds of books related to women, dating, and attraction. He has talked to dozens of high-quality women openly about female psychology and attraction, and has reviewed hundreds of men’s dating profiles…
Successful dating profiles convey universal qualities that women find attractive in men. In a profile review, we look for the following qualities:
Imagine having a profile that does most of the talking for you, even before the first meeting…
We check to see if you have the following essential elements of an online profile:
Mystery
Any woman reading your profile should have a strong desire to know more about you. The art is to convey enough to get her interested, but not so much that she can predict your every move. It’s a delicate balance; with the right amount of mystery, she will often open you by asking a question.
Screeners
Screeners are statements designed to find the particular kind of women you want. Just as if you were fishing, you wouldn’t want to cast your net so wide that you catch dolphins as well as tuna. If you only want tuna, you’ll want to cast the right net. Screener statements let you get only what you’re looking for.
Challenges
Strong opinions set you apart and make you into a challenge; women crave a challenge. Psychologically healthy women don’t want a man they can push over. Adding a couple strong opinions lets you convey that you in fact are strong. She will unconsciously equate the strength of your opinions with the strength of your character.
Self-Respect
The way you talk about yourself says a lot about you. Do you ever use self-deprecating humor or put yourself down? In that case, you would greatly diminish your chance of meeting a psychologically healthy woman. On the contrary, if you write in a style that is active and confident, and exhibits high self-regard, women will want to get to know what is so special about you. If you show respect for yourself, then it follows that you are worthy of respect. There is a secret, universal law: a woman cannot be attracted to a man she does not respect.
Scarcity
One of the most important marketing principles is scarcity. If you offer me a BMW for $20,000, I might buy it. If you say that tomorrow the price will double, then I will be far more likely to buy it. The fear of losing the BMW, at that price, would add urgency to my decision.
In the same way, you should create urgency in your profile by using scarcity. If a woman feels you might be snatched up, then she will be more inclined to chase you. By presenting yourself as the prize, you create a similar effect as the BMW in the example.
Rewards
On a deep level, women want to feel that you will reward them for their good qualities. They want to know that you find them sexy, attractive, smart, or whatever quality you see in her that you like. Women secretly crave to be complimented often on their feminine qualities. A reward is the like the opposite of the screening statement. You’re trying to let the woman know that if she fits into your criteria, she will be rewarded and made to feel special. There are subtle, artful ways to plant rewards into your profile.
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The mechanics of attraction that form the foundation of all strong profiles
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