Seven Easy Ways To Get More Dates

by Eric Lercara

Writing a killer online profile – the kind that gets girls messaging you – is not something that comes naturally to most of us. I had to learn it from trial and error… and I’m a professional writer.

Here are some pieces of wisdom I picked up along the way:

 

Exaggerate for Humor

A simple way to make your profile stand out is to exaggerate your good qualities. If you think you're good looking (or even if you don't), refer to yourself as an ADONIS. If you like sushi, say that you only eat the finest Toro imported from Japan.

Unleash your inner cocky bastard.
Many girls love it and find it HILARIOUS. Trust me.

 

Don’t Answer Every Prompt Literally

Dating isn’t a bureaucratic chore. Nobody will fault you for not following instructions. The less you follow instructions, in fact, the bolder you appear.

Veer off into a story when the prompt doesn’t ask for it, and you will pique girls’ curiosity.

 

Fill In Every Box

One complaint girls have told me is that some guys don’t fill out all the boxes. It makes them seem lazy or secretive – neither of which is attractive to women. Take the time to fill out all the boxes.

On the other hand, don’t look like you spent 5 hours making the perfect profile. That would just seem try-hard.

 

Study Up

Read The Online Dating Bible. It has everything you need to get amazingly good at online dating, REALLY fast.

5 years of my experience went into the Bible, and you can take advantage of that. It contains all the secret tricks and tactics I’ve picked up over the years. It has everything, from how to send the opening message, to the best dating sites to use, to sample dating profiles and hilarious lines.

 

Don’t Spend Tons of Time Online

When talking to women, the way you feel about yourself is just as important, if not more important, than the words and phrases you use to seduce them.

Online is different – but its good for your self-esteem to feel like you are the prize.

It’s pretty hard to do that if you’re spending 3 hours a day looking at hot women. Pretty soon, you start to feel like there are tons of girls out there, and none of them are with you.

You’re better off doing what hot girls do. Do you know what they do? Since their inboxes are flooded with messages every single day, they only log in once every couple of days to see what’s there. If you don’t stand out, they might not even read your message. (That’s because they’re tired of guys sending lame messages like “Hey cutie, what’s up?” That won’t be you.) That’s how I want you to behave. Act as if your inbox is exploding… because eventually, it will be.

Remember, BE THE PRIZE

 

Always Be Closing

There is a good movie I recommend checking out, called Glengarry Glen Ross. Alec Baldwin says something in it that I never forgot. ABC – Always Be Closing. That is the mentality I use to get a girl’s number.

Always move to the next step. If you are talking through messages, get the phone number. When you are talking on the phone, get the date. When you are on the date, go for the kiss. You get my drift.

Don’t wafer. There’s no need to talk for hours online. Chances are, once you meet, you will know pretty soon whether you have chemistry or not. If a girl is messaging you back and forth, she wants you to go for her phone number. What are you waiting for? Close!

 

Your Words Betray Your Feelings

If you lack confidence, it will show in what you write. If you feel down on your life, girls will be able to tell.

If you are in that situation, I believe that meeting women, getting experience with women, and improving that aspect of your life, will seriously improve your overall sense of life satisfaction and self esteem.

Dating and sex is a major part of life. The fastest way to get this part of life handled, in my opinion, is to get experience being around many different women. Reading books and going to seminars is useful too, but there is no substitute for experience.

The catch-22 is: how do you get to go on dates if they can tell you lack self-confidence?

One way is to have Date Per Day review or rewrite your profile, so it is custom-designed to attract the kind of woman you want.

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